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why divorce ?

16 May
A Marriage or Husband and Wife tree.

A Marriage or Husband and Wife tree. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

why divorce

divorce is an accident in life

it can be avoided if it is not intentional

intimidating insulting each other in the married life

on little causes leads to accidental life

bullying among children, among students

appears to the public, where as it is not so here

by fighting one another or by forming group wise

the children used to satisfy their thrust and disgusts

in revenging manner in the school atmosphere

where as there is no scope for such an out let to the couples in the family atmosphere

the main reason for this intimidation insults of other partner is that the society injected in our minds one kind of social stigma……

the husband is superior where as the wife is inferior

the husband is enjoyer where as the wife is enjoyable

the husband is protector where as the wife is dependent

now the equations , equilibriums have changed drastically

gender discrimination has gone away and almost all  appears to be disappeared

but still this social stigma has laid  eggs in the subconscious minds of the society

this is a root cause for all the intimidation, insulting, bullying among the family members

bride party bride groom party forms into groups and declares war against each other

in the schools, and colleges teachers parents control the children for bullying each other

here who has to control the  elders.

for showing supremacy, out  of jealous  this criminal intimidation comes out from the human being

how to stop this

remedies

  1. one should not pass comments on the physical defects of the other spouse..
  2. one should not interfere in the affairs of other spouse relatives or parents family unless requested for help nor pass comments.
  3. wife must pay due  attention to family of husband and relatives of husband vice verse  applies to the husband also.
  4. under any circumstances no one should consider the family members are out lets of exhaust for  loosing one’s bad temperaments
  5. under every occasion applause the other’s works, boost and inject positive energy happy waves  in the family atmosphere.

like wise each couple has to form their own rules and regulations for running happy family.

instead of calling as rules and regulations, the couple may simply call it as” bridge the gaps” of the family affairs.

so why divorce. if it is not intentional for  ulterior motives.

(i found some of these causes in so many cases rushing for divorce. in counselling after proper guidance so many couples lived happily forgetting divorce )

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5 Comments

Posted by on May 16, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

5 responses to “why divorce ?

  1. marriagecoach1

    May 27, 2012 at 5:16 pm

    cool rules for relationships

     
  2. "The Light-Bearer Series" Novelist, Emily Guido

    June 28, 2012 at 11:28 am

    For those who have been through this, thank you… Emily

     
    • advocatemmmohan

      June 28, 2012 at 11:34 am

      thank u
      nice comment
      with regards
      advocatemmmohan

       

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